Are you implying that tinder hasn’t drastically increased inceldom? It’s basically Hypergamy: the App. The percentage of sexually inactive men has skyrocketed since tinder.
how..how does anyone not know this? hookup culture and hookup apps in particular create a situation where a smaller and smaller percentage of men are getting a larger and larger share of the women. Thus, more incels than ever before.
See for yourself. Notice how the male and female lines diverge to an unprecedented distance starting in 2011 (which just happens to be when tinder started).
Ok. I’ll bite. Maybe so, but your talking about hot, hot women.
What about the ol’ meat market mentality where, sure you can’t fuck a ten, but you can get your dick wet in a 5 just like the old days. That’s the other edge of the incel sword. They are picky, critical little baby boys, and don’t take what they can get and deserve based on their general outlook, lifestyle and demeanor.
I’m in a relationship, and have absolutely zero problem cheating any time I want if I am observant and easy going and NOT PICKY.
There’s still lonely desperate pigs out there, sir.
Ok. I’ll bite. Maybe so, but your talking about hot, hot women.
What about the ol’ meat market mentality where, sure you can’t fuck a ten, but you can get your dick wet in a 5 just like the old days. That’s the other edge of the incel sword. They are picky, critical little baby boys, and don’t take what they can get and deserve based on their general outlook, lifestyle and demeanor.
I’m in a relationship, and have absolutely zero problem cheating any time I want if I am observant and easy going and NOT PICKY.
There’s still lonely desperate pigs out there, sir.
You’re simply wrong. So, so wrong. Incels have way lower standards than the average man. Hypergamy shifts the goals of all women significantly upwards. There’s even some data to suggest that average looking women actually hook up with the top 20% of men more often these days than really hot women (an idea known as juggernaut theory). But even setting that aside, the end result is that average and ugly men are having an extremely difficult time getting their looksmatches (average and ugly women). This is more or less what hypergamy refers to. You’re just not paying attention if you don’t think something like what I’ve described is happening.
Also, how/why you know so much about this?
I’ve been incel for the better part of a year. But I was aware of a lot of this before I became incel.
Baby boy incels.
Again, our standards are more reasonable than those of most men. I’m attracted to probably 80% of non-black women.
You didn’t brusie my ego. I just wanted to clarify that you know that the “in” in incel stands for “involuntary” because you strike me as possibly being some old boomer or Gen Xer who doesn’t know any of this shit. Not exactly ego-boosting to admit that nobody wants to fuck you but it is what it is.
Stop being the way you’re being.
I started going down this rabbit hole AFTER many months of no sex. The incelposting was caused by the lack of sex. Not the other way around. That’s pretty much the case for all incels.
I said possibly. Just the impression I got. And you’re making some assumptions about me as well, and not couching them by saying “possibly” like I did. I really don’t know what your life is like, but you don’t know what mine is like either.
False, All Puerto Ricans look like an ugly foot. All the northeast manbabies keep that false narrative alive so they won't get goofed on for fucking pedro serrano in a wig.
My incel attitude must have somehow gone back in time then, because again, the autistic incel obsession came after months of no sex, not the other way around.
Interesting fact: there's a profession known as "prostitution," where women will fuck you if you pay them money. It exists virtually everywhere on Earth and, thanks to the wonders of the internet, doesn't even require you to leave your house. If it's simply a matter of getting your dick wet, there's the solution. Your celibacy is not "involuntary."
It’s not. I’ve got the numbers of 4 or 5 whores from back when Craigslist still had personals that I could plow if all I cared about was the physical act of fucking.
Your celibacy is not "involuntary."
Ok fine. if no man can be involuntarily celibate because hookers exist, call it whatever else you want. The exact term used doesn’t matter.
I'll grant you, "men-who-blame-their-unfuckability-on-society-instead-of-making-any-sort-of-effort-at-self-improvement-cel" doesn't roll off the tongue very easily.
This. I've never had a problem getting laid because I've never had an issue with paying for sex, whether it's your standard hooker or even paying a college girl a couple hundred through a sugar daddy site. Either way, it's a great time to be alive and never been easier to get pussy. I'm an average looking guy with an OK personality and I do fine.
I’m not denying the whorishness of women (in fact, the graph I posted earlier clearly shows that women are getting sex outside their marriages at a much higher rate than men). Sure, they’re on the market. Doesn’t say anything about who on the market gets them.
Incels have way lower standards than the average man
Bullshit. That's exactly the opposite of truth. Those creeps feel entitled to girls WAY out of their league and they're unwilling to improve themselves to get them.
It’s the latter. Don’t believe everything on incel forums—some of it is dumb—but lurk on them for a while and you’ll find that a lot of it corresponds with what you see around you.
Change your life and you won't be an incel. Doesn't matter how ugly you are if you get sun, workout,clean yourself well and spend some time getting decent clothes, as a man you can still become very fuckabls
Sure doesn’t feel that way. But I don’t care too much about the semantics of it all. I’m in a bad situation sexually speaking that shares many commonalities with inceldom. Call it what you will.
I’ve been there. I’m still a homebody and have trouble dating because of it, due to the fact that few other people enjoy staying in as much as I do. But I used to be even worse.
This isn't a result of hookup culture. Shit has always been that way.
Average to below-average looking guys have relationship sex (which makes senses. Why would a girl hookup with some 300 pound neckbeard?). Above-average looking guys can fuck around. It's never not been like that.
All tinder has done is make this easier for women, and bring it to the attention of men who may not have previously known.
But the number of girls hooking up is astronomically smaller than the number of girls in relationships/wanting to be in relationships. It just isn't easy when the majority of the male population consists of unfuckable/undateable nerds.
This isn't a result of hookup culture. Shit has always been that way.
Average to below-average looking guys have relationship sex (which makes sense. Why would a girl hookup with some 300 pound neckbeard?). Above-average looking guys can fuck around. It's never not been like that.
So alpha fux, beta bux basically? And sure, while women might have secretly had this dual-attraction before the rise of hookup culture, hookup culture has allowed this phenomenon to play out more in reality. I don’t see how you can say it hasn’t.
All tinder has done is make this easier for women (hence the rise on the chart),
Sure....That’s the whole point....
and bring it to the attention of men who may not have previously known.
Yes.....
But the number of girls hooking up is astronomically smaller than the number of girls in relationships/wanting to be in relationships.
No. You suck at interpreting data. Whether the bare majority of women want hookups or relationships, I can’t say (I suspect most women probably want to have their cake and eat it too). But the data shows that an increasing number of women (might still be the minority, but they’re increasing) are choosing hookups with Chads over relationships with their looksmatches.
On the graph, the number of sexless females actually hasn’t gone down that much. It’s the number of sexless males and the differential between that number and the number of sexless females that have increased to an unprecedented level. An increase or decrease in just relationship sex would show a rise or fall for both lines simultaneously, as relationships are generally monogamous and contain an equal number of males and females. But if about the same number of females are having sex at the same time that a drastically decreased number of men are having sex, that can only happen if momogamous relationships are becoming less common and women are seeking sex more and more in nonmonogamous ways, AND with a smaller and smaller number of men (and, as you’ve already stated, when they have casual sex, they go for looks). That’s what incels argue. The data shows that the trend is correct. You can only argue that the degree or extent isn’t as great as incels think. But you can’t deny the trend.
It just isn't easy [for women to enter relationships] when the majority of the male population consists of unfuckable/undateable nerds.
I thought you said women were more lenient in their attractiveness standards for relationship sex?
Go to a public place and look around. 95% of the guys are messes.
I don’t think so—I think most men are average looking—but women agree with you. Studies show that they rate something like 80% of men as below average looking (which would be impossible if women had realistic standards, unless maybe we’re using mean rather than median, and if there are some major outliers shifting the mean upwards). And that’s the whole point of the incel argument. If women want to date/fuck, and if they’re increasingly coming to see only a small minority of men as dateable/fuckable, you end up with fewer and fewer men getting more and more women. Logic dictates it. The data shows it. Lived experience validates it.
"I’ve been there. I’m still a homebody and have trouble dating because of it, due to the fact that few other people enjoy staying in as much as I do. But I used to be even worse."
That's a quote of yours from this thread, so something tells me like the majority of redpill/mgtow/incel guys, you base your "experiences" around what you read on the internet. I discovered TRP in high school and did the same shit. Suddenly, women were evil because a bunch of people on the internet said so. That's the majority of anti-women groups IMO. Just guys who really don't have a lot of experience. I could obviously be wrong in our case but I honestly believe that's most of you. Because I was the same way when I was younger.
TRP obsession with Chad makes zero sense. How often do you encounter a Chad? How many Chads are out there? It sure as shit isn't 20% of men. But let's say that it is. Logistically, how can 20% of the male population be fucking 80% of women? The numbers don't possibly make sense. So do 20% of guys just bang 24/7? They would have to in order for that math to work out.
Don't you have friends/family who are in relationships? Almost everyone I know is dating, engaged, or married. These are average guys. So 80% of their girls are cheating on them, right? It's fucking nonsense.
Most really good-looking/successful guys are in relationships. Most of them have "bluepill" tendencies and tend to fall way harder for girls than normal guys. Real life isn't a frat. People work/have hobbies/have families/etc. Life isn't a fuckfest.
That's a quote of yours from this thread, so something tells me like the majority of redpill/mgtow/incel guys, you base your "experiences" around what you read on the internet. I discovered TRP in high school and did the same shit. Suddenly, women were evil because a bunch of people on the internet said so. That's the majority of anti-women groups IMO. Just guys who really don't have a lot of experience. I could obviously be wrong in our case but I honestly believe that's most of you. Because I was the same way when I was younger.
I don’t enjoy going out, but I’m willing to. I used to be straight-up unwilling or very resistant to it, but I was actually getting laid back then, funny enough. So “just leave your house bro” isn’t true in my case.
Logistically, how can 20% of the male population be fucking 80% of women? The numbers don't possibly make sense. So do 20% of guys just bang 24/7? They would have to in order for that math to work out.
How would it be mathematically impossible? This isn’t some some situation like with Wilt Chamberlain, where some nerds calculated that if he slept with as many women as he claimed to have slept with, he would have had to have sex with like 20 different women a day or something. It just requires that the top 20% of men have one, two, maybe three regular fwbs, the ability to easily pick up new girls at parties or on tinder when they please, and maybe girlfriends they cheat on. It doesn’t seem too out-of-step with what I observe in reality tbh. 20% of the men getting 80% of the women isn’t actually that absurd in an increasingly nonmonogamous culture. There are ratios in the animal kingdom that are way worse, and you can infer from genetic evidence that the same was true in primitive humanity. Civilization relied on and enforced a kind of sexual socialism via monogamy, but remove the incentives/pressure for it and you regress back towards the animalistic mean.
Don't you have friends/family who are in relationships? Almost everyone I know is dating, engaged, or married.
I don’t know if it’s a regional thing or something, but that’s not the case where I live. Especially with regard to marriage. Something like 65% of people nowadays are unmarried at age 30. Up from like 15% in the 1950s.
inb4 “but some of them will get married in their 30s”
Yeah I know, but you can’t deny that the general trend is for less and less people to be married.
Chicks will fuck normal guys in relationships, but if a girl is hooking up, then she wants someone hot. How is this news to you or anyone else?
It’s not new. What’s new is the rate at which women hook up. If it’s true that an increasing number of women are choosing to hookup rather than enter relationships (and it is true), that means more sex for the minority of men who are fuckbuddy-material Chads and less for the majority of men who are boyfriend-material betas.
Would you prefer to hookup with a girl who's a 6 with a great personality, or a 10 who's retarded? The 10, right? Because it's a hookup and you don't care about real qualities.
Actually, I’m weird about that. I want sex quickly but not necessarily casually. I like to fuck right away and have that be the start of a long-term relationship. So I keep both looks and personality in mind when I’m trying to score. Other men might not approach it that way though. Women certainly don’t.
I concede that you might be more right than I am about the extent that hypergamy affects most men today. But I think that its existence and the general trend towards a re-emergence of primitive sexuality are undeniable. And since I’m the kind of guy who’s always thinking about what the future will be like, I pay a lot of attention to these trends. The 80-20 rule might not be totally in effect right now, but I think we’re rapidly getting there.
So what's the problem? I'm genuinely curious because I've never talked to someone with this mindset before. Do you want to be a chad? Do you want to be a guy with a bunch of FWBs? You can do that if you want to. The only thing stopping you from living the life you want is yourself.
If you want to get tons of NSA ass, then get ripped and fuck the shallow girls who want to hookup with hot guys. If you want a real relationship, start approaching girls whenever you're out (not clubs but stores, shops, social circle, etc) and try to find a girl who isn't social media obsessed (they're out there. I've dated them).
I've never understood the incel/mgtow mindset of complaining about things but not trying to change. If the world is going further into the 80/20 rule like you claim it is, then get into that 20%. It's not hard. Being in great shape pretty much puts you there and a little personality makes you a catch to women. At least TRP guys try to better themselves with working out/game.
And don't you think that women making money is the root cause of those numbers increasing? Most dudes don't have a lot to offer besides their paycheck, and if a girl is making good money at her job, then why would she bother dating an average joe? Women had to get married back in the 1950's because they had literally no other option in life. You need to bring something more to the table than just existing in 2018. Get in great shape, fuck the shit out of your girl in bed, be funny, and you'll never have a problem with women. It's pretty simple.
I have 7 dates lined up in a place I'm.moving to in a week. If you're good with tinder you can get laid a couple times a week with random chicks until you find a girl who's good enough to be you're girlfriend. Also 70% of chicks on tinder do want to fuck on the first date and like to be spanked and for you to spit on their cunt. It just takes practice and confidence
I’ve only gotten laid once through tinder and I’ve had it for like a year. “If you’re good with tinder” lol. There’s not really any strategy to it. Just look good and have a good bio. And I get chicks messaging me all the time saying they like my bio, so that kind of narrows it down, doesn’t it?
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Ok. I’ll bite. Maybe so, but your talking about hot, hot women.
What about the ol’ meat market mentality where, sure you can’t fuck a ten, but you can get your dick wet in a 5 just like the old days. That’s the other edge of the incel sword. They are picky, critical little baby boys, and don’t take what they can get and deserve based on their general outlook, lifestyle and demeanor.
I’m in a relationship, and have absolutely zero problem cheating any time I want if I am observant and easy going and NOT PICKY.
There’s still lonely desperate pigs out there, sir.
This isn't a result of hookup culture. Shit has always been that way.
Average to below-average looking guys have relationship sex (which makes senses. Why would a girl hookup with some 300 pound neckbeard?). Above-average looking guys can fuck around. It's never not been like that.
All tinder has done is make this easier for women, and bring it to the attention of men who may not have previously known.
But the number of girls hooking up is astronomically smaller than the number of girls in relationships/wanting to be in relationships. It just isn't easy when the majority of the male population consists of unfuckable/undateable nerds.
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1 thrillated 2018-05-25
Anthony used to sell CDs called Demented World. Elliot's manifesto is called My Twisted World. Coincidence?!
Probably.
1 Compound_MediaPR 2018-05-25
Ron and Gail are looking good.
1 china-blast 2018-05-25
That's Cosmo. He's chinese.
1 XenusWingman 2018-05-25
Sister Christian...
1 LoloTheRogan 2018-05-25
Jews
1 Kizzner 2018-05-25
JIAN-YANG!!!
1 TurningFrogsGay 2018-05-25
Looks like Ron and Anthony had a baby
1 LarryKleist711 2018-05-25
Kid had some major DSL's. They would have loved him in Pelican Bay.
1 wackadoodle_wigwam 2018-05-25
They’d have given his face a good Rodgering.
1 Destination_Jeffrey 2018-05-25
he went on an incel-driven rampage 3 months before tinder became popular.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
And actually had all the money in the world. Hahahaha
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
Are you implying that tinder hasn’t drastically increased inceldom? It’s basically Hypergamy: the App. The percentage of sexually inactive men has skyrocketed since tinder.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
What? Explain yourself, you lunatic.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
how..how does anyone not know this? hookup culture and hookup apps in particular create a situation where a smaller and smaller percentage of men are getting a larger and larger share of the women. Thus, more incels than ever before.
See for yourself. Notice how the male and female lines diverge to an unprecedented distance starting in 2011 (which just happens to be when tinder started).
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Ok. I’ll bite. Maybe so, but your talking about hot, hot women.
What about the ol’ meat market mentality where, sure you can’t fuck a ten, but you can get your dick wet in a 5 just like the old days. That’s the other edge of the incel sword. They are picky, critical little baby boys, and don’t take what they can get and deserve based on their general outlook, lifestyle and demeanor.
I’m in a relationship, and have absolutely zero problem cheating any time I want if I am observant and easy going and NOT PICKY.
There’s still lonely desperate pigs out there, sir.
Also, how/why you know so much about this?
Also, also, how hideous are you?
Baby boy incels.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
You’re simply wrong. So, so wrong. Incels have way lower standards than the average man. Hypergamy shifts the goals of all women significantly upwards. There’s even some data to suggest that average looking women actually hook up with the top 20% of men more often these days than really hot women (an idea known as juggernaut theory). But even setting that aside, the end result is that average and ugly men are having an extremely difficult time getting their looksmatches (average and ugly women). This is more or less what hypergamy refers to. You’re just not paying attention if you don’t think something like what I’ve described is happening.
I’ve been incel for the better part of a year. But I was aware of a lot of this before I became incel.
Again, our standards are more reasonable than those of most men. I’m attracted to probably 80% of non-black women.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Then go fuck, faggot.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
...do you know what incel stands for?
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
You’re insane.
Do you live in a American or European metro area?
Maybe just sheer volume or lack there of is your issue.
1 magicjohnsonpositivy 2018-05-25
Same thing. Stop calling yourself an incel and do something about it and change your life. Stop blaming the media like the minorities do
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
Same thing as what?
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Correction. Sorry. I didn’t mean to bruise your baby boy incel ego. I don’t want you driving a van into a crowd or whatever you creeps do.
Get over yourself! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go fuck, faggot.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
You didn’t brusie my ego. I just wanted to clarify that you know that the “in” in incel stands for “involuntary” because you strike me as possibly being some old boomer or Gen Xer who doesn’t know any of this shit. Not exactly ego-boosting to admit that nobody wants to fuck you but it is what it is.
I started going down this rabbit hole AFTER many months of no sex. The incelposting was caused by the lack of sex. Not the other way around. That’s pretty much the case for all incels.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Dude, I am a millennial who works in an office and lives in the city. The opposite of what you are framing me as. You’re probably older than me.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I said possibly. Just the impression I got. And you’re making some assumptions about me as well, and not couching them by saying “possibly” like I did. I really don’t know what your life is like, but you don’t know what mine is like either.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Sounds shitty, possibly.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
I have a cousin who’s like 20 and is an ugly, goofy, chubby looking fuck and has a hot Puerto Rican girlfriend.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
A.J. and Blanca?
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Basically, actually.
1 MrPoopyButtwholes 2018-05-25
False, All Puerto Ricans look like an ugly foot. All the northeast manbabies keep that false narrative alive so they won't get goofed on for fucking pedro serrano in a wig.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
I’m left coast, hoe.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
It’s YOU and your horrible attitude and outlook.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
My incel attitude must have somehow gone back in time then, because again, the autistic incel obsession came after months of no sex, not the other way around.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
How about instead of sitting on the subreddit of a radio show that’s been defunct for 5 years, ranting about being an incel, you go outside?
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
You’re post on this subreddit more than me.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
I just stated I work long hours in an office setting.
Also, I’m trying to woo u/Bams_seed and fly her out to smash.
Now she only sends me feet pics. :(
1 ManbadFerrara 2018-05-25
Interesting fact: there's a profession known as "prostitution," where women will fuck you if you pay them money. It exists virtually everywhere on Earth and, thanks to the wonders of the internet, doesn't even require you to leave your house. If it's simply a matter of getting your dick wet, there's the solution. Your celibacy is not "involuntary."
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
It’s not. I’ve got the numbers of 4 or 5 whores from back when Craigslist still had personals that I could plow if all I cared about was the physical act of fucking.
Ok fine. if no man can be involuntarily celibate because hookers exist, call it whatever else you want. The exact term used doesn’t matter.
1 ManbadFerrara 2018-05-25
I'll grant you, "men-who-blame-their-unfuckability-on-society-instead-of-making-any-sort-of-effort-at-self-improvement-cel" doesn't roll off the tongue very easily.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
A lot of incels looksmatch, which is basically doing anything and everything to make themselves as fuckable as possible. Some spend thousands on it.
1 ManbadFerrara 2018-05-25
Instead of shoveling money over to PUAs and the like, some regular old therapy to improve their social skills would be more likely do the trick.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
Oh PUAs are a straight-up scam. I (and almost all of the incels) agree with you there.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Can’t fix your rotten, boring personality and attitude.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
But earlier you said...
...and suggested that’s all I had to do to get laid. So can a person change their personality or not?
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
I was going to go down this road but this creep just wants to cry because super models aren’t lining up to rim him, because he thinks he deserves it.
No one owes you shit.
1 BoatHack2 2018-05-25
This. I've never had a problem getting laid because I've never had an issue with paying for sex, whether it's your standard hooker or even paying a college girl a couple hundred through a sugar daddy site. Either way, it's a great time to be alive and never been easier to get pussy. I'm an average looking guy with an OK personality and I do fine.
1 MrPoopyButtwholes 2018-05-25
every time you type "baby boy" it makes you look like an enormous faggot.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
That’s what I was going for.
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Goddamn it. I actually feel bad for you.
Even married or “in a relationship” women are on the market for a quick fuck if they are miserable.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I’m not denying the whorishness of women (in fact, the graph I posted earlier clearly shows that women are getting sex outside their marriages at a much higher rate than men). Sure, they’re on the market. Doesn’t say anything about who on the market gets them.
1 allenricketts 2018-05-25
I was with you until
Bullshit. That's exactly the opposite of truth. Those creeps feel entitled to girls WAY out of their league and they're unwilling to improve themselves to get them.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I would be thrilled to fuck Amy Schumer or Landau’s wife. That shoild give you an idea of how not-picky I am.
1 allenricketts 2018-05-25
I believe you but I don't believe that's the norm for incels.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
Maybe not. I don’t know.
1 Buffphan 2018-05-25
Dude.....seriously?
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I’m really not picky at all. I don’t like black women and legitimately morbidly obese women. That’s about it.
1 MrPoopyButtwholes 2018-05-25
*citation needed
1 PaintedPicture 2018-05-25
You're either a great troll or this is something pandemic
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
It’s the latter. Don’t believe everything on incel forums—some of it is dumb—but lurk on them for a while and you’ll find that a lot of it corresponds with what you see around you.
1 MrPoopyButtwholes 2018-05-25
It's almost as if the media are purposely making incels look as awful as possible because they're this seasons new "active shooter boogeyman".
1 bornrevolution 2018-05-25
which is funny considering they are 100% capable of pulling that type of shit (Elliot) so they're just gassing the fire.
then again the media loves school shootings so it makes sense.
1 magicjohnsonpositivy 2018-05-25
Change your life and you won't be an incel. Doesn't matter how ugly you are if you get sun, workout,clean yourself well and spend some time getting decent clothes, as a man you can still become very fuckabls
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
“Just X bro”
1 SWIMsfriend 2018-05-25
Those uggos also just fuck hot guys. There are enough manwhores willing to fuck anything that they will fuck those women too.
Also using Norton words doesnt help your argument considering the ladies you cheat on your nordic princesses with most likely have a penis
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
So become the manwhore. ?
1 SWIMsfriend 2018-05-25
Stop being Jim Norton you dumb faggot
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Are you a cuckold victim too?
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
sort of.
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Are you a virgin?
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
No.
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Volcel
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
Sure doesn’t feel that way. But I don’t care too much about the semantics of it all. I’m in a bad situation sexually speaking that shares many commonalities with inceldom. Call it what you will.
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
I’m a femcel.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
A woman who can’t get laid?
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Well I’d rather have a boyfriend but I am very agoraphobic and can’t leave my house.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I’ve been there. I’m still a homebody and have trouble dating because of it, due to the fact that few other people enjoy staying in as much as I do. But I used to be even worse.
1 A_Friendly_Creeper 2018-05-25
Hi, just curious how you found this sub (as a shy FA woman) ? Pm if you want
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
I listen to old shows
1 theharddriveofhits 2018-05-25
This isn't a result of hookup culture. Shit has always been that way.
Average to below-average looking guys have relationship sex (which makes senses. Why would a girl hookup with some 300 pound neckbeard?). Above-average looking guys can fuck around. It's never not been like that.
All tinder has done is make this easier for women, and bring it to the attention of men who may not have previously known.
But the number of girls hooking up is astronomically smaller than the number of girls in relationships/wanting to be in relationships. It just isn't easy when the majority of the male population consists of unfuckable/undateable nerds.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
So alpha fux, beta bux basically? And sure, while women might have secretly had this dual-attraction before the rise of hookup culture, hookup culture has allowed this phenomenon to play out more in reality. I don’t see how you can say it hasn’t.
Sure....That’s the whole point....
Yes.....
But the number of girls hooking up is astronomically smaller than the number of girls in relationships/wanting to be in relationships.
No. You suck at interpreting data. Whether the bare majority of women want hookups or relationships, I can’t say (I suspect most women probably want to have their cake and eat it too). But the data shows that an increasing number of women (might still be the minority, but they’re increasing) are choosing hookups with Chads over relationships with their looksmatches.
On the graph, the number of sexless females actually hasn’t gone down that much. It’s the number of sexless males and the differential between that number and the number of sexless females that have increased to an unprecedented level. An increase or decrease in just relationship sex would show a rise or fall for both lines simultaneously, as relationships are generally monogamous and contain an equal number of males and females. But if about the same number of females are having sex at the same time that a drastically decreased number of men are having sex, that can only happen if momogamous relationships are becoming less common and women are seeking sex more and more in nonmonogamous ways, AND with a smaller and smaller number of men (and, as you’ve already stated, when they have casual sex, they go for looks). That’s what incels argue. The data shows that the trend is correct. You can only argue that the degree or extent isn’t as great as incels think. But you can’t deny the trend.
I thought you said women were more lenient in their attractiveness standards for relationship sex?
I don’t think so—I think most men are average looking—but women agree with you. Studies show that they rate something like 80% of men as below average looking (which would be impossible if women had realistic standards, unless maybe we’re using mean rather than median, and if there are some major outliers shifting the mean upwards). And that’s the whole point of the incel argument. If women want to date/fuck, and if they’re increasingly coming to see only a small minority of men as dateable/fuckable, you end up with fewer and fewer men getting more and more women. Logic dictates it. The data shows it. Lived experience validates it.
1 theharddriveofhits 2018-05-25
"I’ve been there. I’m still a homebody and have trouble dating because of it, due to the fact that few other people enjoy staying in as much as I do. But I used to be even worse."
That's a quote of yours from this thread, so something tells me like the majority of redpill/mgtow/incel guys, you base your "experiences" around what you read on the internet. I discovered TRP in high school and did the same shit. Suddenly, women were evil because a bunch of people on the internet said so. That's the majority of anti-women groups IMO. Just guys who really don't have a lot of experience. I could obviously be wrong in our case but I honestly believe that's most of you. Because I was the same way when I was younger.
TRP obsession with Chad makes zero sense. How often do you encounter a Chad? How many Chads are out there? It sure as shit isn't 20% of men. But let's say that it is. Logistically, how can 20% of the male population be fucking 80% of women? The numbers don't possibly make sense. So do 20% of guys just bang 24/7? They would have to in order for that math to work out.
Don't you have friends/family who are in relationships? Almost everyone I know is dating, engaged, or married. These are average guys. So 80% of their girls are cheating on them, right? It's fucking nonsense.
Most really good-looking/successful guys are in relationships. Most of them have "bluepill" tendencies and tend to fall way harder for girls than normal guys. Real life isn't a frat. People work/have hobbies/have families/etc. Life isn't a fuckfest.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I don’t enjoy going out, but I’m willing to. I used to be straight-up unwilling or very resistant to it, but I was actually getting laid back then, funny enough. So “just leave your house bro” isn’t true in my case.
How would it be mathematically impossible? This isn’t some some situation like with Wilt Chamberlain, where some nerds calculated that if he slept with as many women as he claimed to have slept with, he would have had to have sex with like 20 different women a day or something. It just requires that the top 20% of men have one, two, maybe three regular fwbs, the ability to easily pick up new girls at parties or on tinder when they please, and maybe girlfriends they cheat on. It doesn’t seem too out-of-step with what I observe in reality tbh. 20% of the men getting 80% of the women isn’t actually that absurd in an increasingly nonmonogamous culture. There are ratios in the animal kingdom that are way worse, and you can infer from genetic evidence that the same was true in primitive humanity. Civilization relied on and enforced a kind of sexual socialism via monogamy, but remove the incentives/pressure for it and you regress back towards the animalistic mean.
I don’t know if it’s a regional thing or something, but that’s not the case where I live. Especially with regard to marriage. Something like 65% of people nowadays are unmarried at age 30. Up from like 15% in the 1950s.
Yeah I know, but you can’t deny that the general trend is for less and less people to be married.
It’s not new. What’s new is the rate at which women hook up. If it’s true that an increasing number of women are choosing to hookup rather than enter relationships (and it is true), that means more sex for the minority of men who are fuckbuddy-material Chads and less for the majority of men who are boyfriend-material betas.
Actually, I’m weird about that. I want sex quickly but not necessarily casually. I like to fuck right away and have that be the start of a long-term relationship. So I keep both looks and personality in mind when I’m trying to score. Other men might not approach it that way though. Women certainly don’t.
I concede that you might be more right than I am about the extent that hypergamy affects most men today. But I think that its existence and the general trend towards a re-emergence of primitive sexuality are undeniable. And since I’m the kind of guy who’s always thinking about what the future will be like, I pay a lot of attention to these trends. The 80-20 rule might not be totally in effect right now, but I think we’re rapidly getting there.
1 theharddriveofhits 2018-05-25
So what's the problem? I'm genuinely curious because I've never talked to someone with this mindset before. Do you want to be a chad? Do you want to be a guy with a bunch of FWBs? You can do that if you want to. The only thing stopping you from living the life you want is yourself.
If you want to get tons of NSA ass, then get ripped and fuck the shallow girls who want to hookup with hot guys. If you want a real relationship, start approaching girls whenever you're out (not clubs but stores, shops, social circle, etc) and try to find a girl who isn't social media obsessed (they're out there. I've dated them).
I've never understood the incel/mgtow mindset of complaining about things but not trying to change. If the world is going further into the 80/20 rule like you claim it is, then get into that 20%. It's not hard. Being in great shape pretty much puts you there and a little personality makes you a catch to women. At least TRP guys try to better themselves with working out/game.
And don't you think that women making money is the root cause of those numbers increasing? Most dudes don't have a lot to offer besides their paycheck, and if a girl is making good money at her job, then why would she bother dating an average joe? Women had to get married back in the 1950's because they had literally no other option in life. You need to bring something more to the table than just existing in 2018. Get in great shape, fuck the shit out of your girl in bed, be funny, and you'll never have a problem with women. It's pretty simple.
1 magicjohnsonpositivy 2018-05-25
I have 7 dates lined up in a place I'm.moving to in a week. If you're good with tinder you can get laid a couple times a week with random chicks until you find a girl who's good enough to be you're girlfriend. Also 70% of chicks on tinder do want to fuck on the first date and like to be spanked and for you to spit on their cunt. It just takes practice and confidence
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
I’ve only gotten laid once through tinder and I’ve had it for like a year. “If you’re good with tinder” lol. There’s not really any strategy to it. Just look good and have a good bio. And I get chicks messaging me all the time saying they like my bio, so that kind of narrows it down, doesn’t it?
1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Supreme Gentleman.
1 MonsterSteve 2018-05-25
Looks like Harvey Keitel
1 CONCHOPETEghostcock 2018-05-25
Elliot was a creepy looking fuck
1 CaptainR3dbeard85 2018-05-25
He is perfect for this subs mascot.
1 theRealOpieraqioxyz 2018-05-25
Wow, you have a fine eye for detail sir.
1 12thlilith 2018-05-25
youre a creepy looking fuck, stop projecting what you think about yourself onto others.
1 CONCHOPETEghostcock 2018-05-25
Lol
1 FishstickJones 2018-05-25
Mr. Kill Yo Girl
1 dsbnh 2018-05-25
Some half-chink kids look great but he got the worst of both.
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Damn those are some dick sucking lips. I’d have taken his virginity.
1 LarryKleist711 2018-05-25
Great minds or sumthin'.
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Tsssss
1 ChrisBenoit_Daycare 2018-05-25
He kind of looks like Sue.
1 FrankNigga 2018-05-25
Is that Sue the Russian guy that fucks Anthony Cumia?
Why did tranth photoshop his sandpaper face?
1 fo-da-fo-da-show 2018-05-25
Good lookin kid, I bet he gets a lot of pussy
1 PeeSoup3030 2018-05-25
He looks like he was pieced together from dead ladyboys
1 IceCreaaams 2018-05-25
Holy shit. lol
1 zoob1357 2018-05-25
What a little faggot.
1 Opesterino 2018-05-25
Ant and Sue look so cute together.
1 DataEast1 2018-05-25
Are you guys the type that go hard for Asian women?
1 RoundImage4 2018-05-25
Nice shirt, stupid.
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1 chomp-chomp-chump 2018-05-25
Ok. I’ll bite. Maybe so, but your talking about hot, hot women.
What about the ol’ meat market mentality where, sure you can’t fuck a ten, but you can get your dick wet in a 5 just like the old days. That’s the other edge of the incel sword. They are picky, critical little baby boys, and don’t take what they can get and deserve based on their general outlook, lifestyle and demeanor.
I’m in a relationship, and have absolutely zero problem cheating any time I want if I am observant and easy going and NOT PICKY.
There’s still lonely desperate pigs out there, sir.
Also, how/why you know so much about this?
Also, also, how hideous are you?
Baby boy incels.
1 MandibulofacialWeil 2018-05-25
Are you a cuckold victim too?
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
A lot of incels looksmatch, which is basically doing anything and everything to make themselves as fuckable as possible. Some spend thousands on it.
1 theharddriveofhits 2018-05-25
This isn't a result of hookup culture. Shit has always been that way.
Average to below-average looking guys have relationship sex (which makes senses. Why would a girl hookup with some 300 pound neckbeard?). Above-average looking guys can fuck around. It's never not been like that.
All tinder has done is make this easier for women, and bring it to the attention of men who may not have previously known.
But the number of girls hooking up is astronomically smaller than the number of girls in relationships/wanting to be in relationships. It just isn't easy when the majority of the male population consists of unfuckable/undateable nerds.
1 bornrevolution 2018-05-25
which is funny considering they are 100% capable of pulling that type of shit (Elliot) so they're just gassing the fire.
then again the media loves school shootings so it makes sense.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-25
Same thing as what?