I just found out a buncha friends stopped hanging out with me because I'm "too negative and cynical all the time".

3  2017-05-07 by [deleted]

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Hey here's a suggestion: maybe they weren't truly your friend to begin with, champ.

Gosh golly mister you may be right

I'm only pessimistic and mean spirited on line. In real life im a sweet young man

This happened to me too. Although not explicitly, just don't get invited to things anymore.

Get a hobby and shitpost more on here is the only solution really

Same here.

I might swap the "shitpost more on here" recommendation, with "make sure you're not smoking tooo much weed - I love weed but it can make you anti-social, physiologically"

But weed gets rid of boredom and I'm bored a lot. Workout instead of smoking I guess?

We all know the answers, right gang?

This sub may honestly be the problem. I used to go on /pol/ (a 'sub' on 4chan which is a worse version of this, all the time and really fucked me up), then I stopped going and the world started to become a better place.

Either see this sub a place to go for some laughs on occasion or quit coming here all together.

Don't be such a downer you sack of shit. It's not edgy, macho, cool, or endearing, it just makes you a draining person who isn't fun to be around.

Hey baby-o, I was as surprised as you are.

Don't be such a downer you sack of shit. It's not edgy, macho, cool, or endearing, it just makes you a draining person who isn't fun to be around.

You're beautiful no matter what they say, remember that.

Words won't bring me down?

I lost a lot of friends about eight years back when I went through a particularly dark and painful depression (I used to be much more open and faggy about it) and they gradually faded away because they either didn't know how to help or they couldn't take my own cynicism and negativity.

Now I've learned to suffer in silence and I'm taking to the drink. Have no fear, you silly bastard -- happy days are here again!