I'm surprised I couldn't find a post for this. Opie leaked the following message to the blaze.com (along with Ant's phone number)

“Was sent the video of u talking about our relationship…found it fair but just so you know I never resented you having a girlfriend. I was happy for u cause I knew how miserable u were being married. Also…lots [are] getting the impression I haven’t talked to you at all since this all went down and you know this isn’t true. Really would like to know why they think this. Anytime you want to have a beer [or] grab a bite just let me know… hope all is well.”

He also sent them Ant's private response to him. Anyway the part I like the best is "Also... lots [are] getting the impression I haven't talked to you at all since this all went down and you know this isn't true."

So there it is. Proof that Opie goes straight home after work and just searches out his own name. I really don't see that many people talking about Opie not reaching out to ant, just the vocal minority and this venomous sub reddit. I think this just about proves Opie comes here, to this very reddit and reviews articles about himself. I mean I know many of us felt that way but for him to feel so insecure about this and then leak his texts to a web blog... it's like he doesn't realize that 95% of his listeners bought a new car sometime between 1 day and a year ago and don't give two shits about him or his personal relationships.