Ok, just to give you guys some background. I love my wife, we have 2 kids and have been together for 7 years now.

Ive always felt insecure about my penis size, I’ve tried all those creams and pills and have seriously considered surgery (but its risky and expensive)

Our sex life has always been good on my end, but I have always worried she was less than satisfied. Plus she used to date a lot back in the day, and the few times she ever mentioned her sexual history her exes penis sizes always came up.

Now thats covered, she is the sweetest person ever when she isnt drinking. But she was drunk at this function and one of my younger male cousins made an off color joke about penis size running smaller on my side of the family (as a joke) and she blurted out “tell me about it” then quickly covered her mouth and started laughing to herself

I was mortified. I didnt say anything until the car ride home, then I let her have it.

This was a week ago and she has apologized over and over again, but I am still so hurt and worry she has secretly felt this way for 7 years.

tl:dr wife made joke about my small penis in front of the family even tho she knows its a sensitive issue and I yelled at her about it

thanks guys

edit: Thanks for the gold kind stranger!